As part of our Belief in Spiritualism, we believe in Mediumship and the ability to communicate with those who have passed on. After mt husbands passing, I joined a bereavement group, where I discovered that grief has a common thread of missing the physical presence of our loved one. During this time, my husband came to me, and said he wanted me to share a letter from him. And so, I would like to share it with you.
My Darling, Please do not grieve for me, I do not hurt, I cand walk and run, and dance. I can laugh again without losing my breath. I can smile, I am no longer in any pain. Please, do not grieve for me. I hurt when you are hurting, I cry when you cry. I miss your physical touch, as much as you miss mine. I can still hear your laughter when you do laugh. That is not as often as you did before I left your world. I can still see your smile when you do smile. That is not as often as you did before I left your world. It hurts my heart that I cannot feel your tender embrace, and kiss, as much as it hurts your heart. It was my time, I know you did not want to see me suffer any longer, and you know I would have given anything to stay longer, but it was my time to move on to the other side. I know you understand this.
We will always have the memories of our lives together, long or short. Smile at the good times and try to forget the hard times. Laugh at those silly moments we shared. When you hear that song on the radio, remember how we sang and danced to it. Don’t cry, because you will always have those memories. Take that trip we planned and see all the sights through your eyes for both of us. Watch our children grow, dance at their weddings, or their children’s weddings. Enjoy your life and make your own new memories that you can look on with love, not sadness. I will always love you and look forward to the time we meet again. We will dance, sing, laugh, and embrace. I do not want you to waste the time you have left, grieving my life with you. I want you to experience life. You have done your best for me, and I will always be grateful for you. Now, do your best for your life and our family. Take a class! Remember that hobby you always wanted to try? Do it! Spoil the children! Spend their inheritance! Have dinner at a new favorite restaurant, make new memories. I will always be near you, in a soft breeze, a light summer rain, the season’s best flowers. I will always be near enough to hear your thoughts. Just remember, I will always love you as much as you love me. I will be in your dreams when you are sad. I know the pain you feel is almost unbearable at times, this is not what I wanted. Please just keep the good thoughts in your mind, the happy times we will did share. Nothing can take them away, not even me leaving the earth. I will always live in your memories. Your happy times. No tears please, just smile at this letter, it was written to bring you my love, my darling, not sadness. Much love always.
I hope this letter has brought you some peace and solitude, I know it has brought me much love.
God Bless.
